“I Want a Good Woman for My Husband” – Nigerian Wife

Terhillah David

April 9, 2025

“I Want a Good Woman for My Husband” – Nigerian Wife.

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A Nigerian woman, Buithat Hudu Muhammad Lawal, is seeking a second wife for her husband.

The Biochemist, who said this in a Facebook post on Wednesday, April 9, 2025, would love to view polygamy, but having observed the manner some men go into it has left her with questions.

According to Buithat, she doesn’t want a jealous or manipulative co-wife but someone kind, wise, filled with love, and of good character.

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“Hey loves, I’m smiling as I write this. Yesterday, I made a post about wanting a co-wife — someone to join me in this journey of life with my husband. I noticed a lot of people thought I wasn’t serious, maybe even joked about it. But deep down, I meant every word,” she wrote.

I have always admired polygamy; it has never been an issue for me. What I take issue with is how many of our men have gone about it unfaithfully and without wisdom.

Growth changes a person. As I have grown, so have my thoughts. I have always told my husband, if he wants to take another wife, I support it — but he must involve me fully in the process.

No, I am not looking for a jealous or manipulative co-wife. I want someone kind, wise, filled with love, and with good character.

I want to travel for work knowing my children are safe and cared for; I want to be able to love and care for another child of my husband’s — not born by me — with all sincerity, knowing their mother trusts me completely. I have a deep vision of what polygamy can be, but the real questions are: Can my husband be just? And can the new wife be spiritually grounded?