Former Big Brother Naija winner Mercy Eke has stirred conversation on social media after sharing her views on relationships and household responsibilities.
Speaking during a recent episode of Toke Moments, hosted by media personality Toke Makinwa, the reality TV star revealed that she would not date or marry a man who expects her to cook for him on a regular basis.
According to Mercy, she only enjoys cooking occasionally and would prepare meals for her partner only when she genuinely feels like it.
Her remarks have since sparked mixed reactions online, with many social media users debating expectations around domestic roles in modern relationships.
“I can’t marry or date a man who wants me to cook for him regularly. I only cook once in a while when I am in the mood. If you want fresh food every day, hire a chef.
“It can’t be me. Love can never make me cook for a man every day. I’m not the woman for that kind of man. There are other women out there who will gladly do that, which is fine.
“That is why it’s important to marry ‘who has what you are looking for’.
“So, if you marry me and you are thinking you don’t eat overnight food, it’s not me. I can’t cook every day,” she stated.
BACKSTORY:
Mercy Eke rose to fame in 2019 after becoming the first woman to win the Big Brother Naija reality show, a victory that earned her widespread recognition and a loyal fan base across Africa. Since leaving the show, she has built a successful career as a reality television personality, entrepreneur, influencer, and actress.
Known for speaking candidly about relationships, lifestyle, and personal values, Mercy has frequently made headlines with her opinions on dating and marriage. Over the years, she has maintained that she values independence and believes partners should respect each other’s choices rather than impose traditional gender roles.
Her latest comments were made during an episode of Toke Moments, a podcast hosted by media personality Toke Makinwa, where guests discuss topics ranging from relationships and career to personal growth and modern-day expectations. During the conversation, Mercy said she could not date or marry a man who expects her to cook regularly, explaining that she prefers to cook only when she genuinely feels like it.
The remarks have sparked debate on social media, with some users applauding her honesty and support for shared domestic responsibilities, while others argued that cooking is an important part of marriage. The conversation adds to the growing public discourse about evolving relationship expectations and the division of household duties in modern relationships, particularly among young couples.
