A clerical worker based in Lagos faces ridicule for marrying a man with physical challenges.
Gift Joseph-Egenti, a resident of Lagos, shares her journey of marrying a man with physical challenges and how they met. Despite initial reservations influenced by hearsay from friends, she eventually got to know her husband and married him in 2018.
She was initially put off by rumors about him but was drawn to his innocent look, calm demeanor, intelligence, and caring nature. Gift acknowledges societal judgments and ridicule but chooses to overlook them, staying firm in her decision.
While they have faced no significant challenges as a couple, they have had their share of misunderstandings, which they resolve through open communication. They have a rule not to quarrel past midnight, ensuring they settle disputes before the next day.
We find strength in prayer and mutual support, striving to encourage each other and pursue our goals together.
Yes, I’ve lost several friendships due to my marriage, about two or three.
My husband is my greatest motivation, especially when I’m feeling down. His soothing voice uplifts me instantly, even if he’s not physically present.
I admire my husband’s relentless spirit to achieve more despite his challenges. He’s determined to excel and refuses to be limited by his condition.
My parents accepted him wholeheartedly, but some of my siblings had reservations initially. However, with time and prayer, they came around.
Humor plays a vital role in our relationship, fostering positive vibes and strengthening our bond.
Our hopes for the future are to grow old together, achieving our dreams with love and happiness.
Creating content together wasn’t planned; it started when a picture of us went viral, and a friend suggested we continue sharing our story.
We face misconceptions about our relationship regularly, including doubts about its longevity and assumptions about financial motives. People often speculate about my husband’s wealth or inheritance.
My advice to others in similar situations is to pursue what makes them happy and not let anyone or anything deter them. Stay true to your choice and don’t allow misconceptions to undermine your relationship.
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